~~umm...

[reenka]

ok, well... er....
i don't quite know how to say this...
but.
i'm sure in the future, one or more of you will defriend me. and that's ok. no, really. i may feel slightly hurt, but i'll be fine. there are lots of good reasons to take someone off your friends list.
    it's just, it's a paranoia-inducing thing, anyway. it makes people not friend people in the first place, because they haven't had any assurance they'll be friended back, and stuff....

and i'm not really the sort of person who gives in to the little voice that says, "reeeena, oh, reeeeena. they'll de-friiiiiend youuuuuu," and try to say whatever comes to mind even if i think it's boring and possibly stupid. ahem. but. please. please?
    just as a future reference. um. it would be nice if you let me know why you did it, whenever you do. just. less paranoia = a good thing, no? i think so, anyway.

Comments

[wellington.livejournal.com]

maybe i shouldn't friend people i'm not actual "friends" with, and that i don't feel i "know"

>:< *is offended* Now I shall de-friend you!

No, no, I am joking, my paranoid friend. But really, if you thought like that a little while back you wouldn't have friended me! And then I would be sad (except that I wouldn't have even known, so that doesn't really work, but still...). I for one, think you are brave to actually friend people you don't know...I get all nervous and never do it. I think yours is one of the most interesting fandom journals ever, by the way. I might not comment on all your posts but I do read them. No reason you should feel insecure. :)

p.s. *points at icon* Propaganda! Mwahaahaa!

[yourpoison.livejournal.com]

hee~! thankees. though, i didn't really expect you/anyone to -friend me back- me in the first place, which doesn't bother me. it's the defriending that starts me on the paranoia -.-;;

i mean, you're one of those people i wanted to know if they ever wrote stuff again, and since i never go back and check ff.net, lj it was, usually.
unless the journal seemed -really- boring.
i was still just friending everyone who seemed to be a good writer then (and i still do). it's the whole, well i -know- some of you now (sort of), and so it hurts a little when it's like, not reciprocated anymore.

hee. and it's a nice kiss.
ahhaha but it would be nicer if it was... you know. the right kissee >:D

[wellington.livejournal.com]

I understand! At last I understand! Hehe...I've just been de-friended by Audrey Thurston Hirsh, who is an admirable writer but someone I don't really know, and I feel all paranoid and self-conscious! Yay! Well, I mean not yay, but...I mean...I finally understand your post properly! *is giddy with empathy* :)

(please don't de-friend me now for making stupid pointless comments...I don't think I could take it at the moment *dramatic swoon* ;))

[yourpoison.livejournal.com]

ehehehe! that was what sent -me- into a tizzy, too~!
mostly i'm all "grr" and yargh, because i -still- hadn't read the latest chapter of `speak, desire' which was friends'-locked, so now i'm y'know... out in the cold.
sigh.
but yes. defriending si always .... harsh, unless you didn't care to start with, in which case you still don't care ><;;