~~umm...

[reenka]

ok, well... er....
i don't quite know how to say this...
but.
i'm sure in the future, one or more of you will defriend me. and that's ok. no, really. i may feel slightly hurt, but i'll be fine. there are lots of good reasons to take someone off your friends list.
    it's just, it's a paranoia-inducing thing, anyway. it makes people not friend people in the first place, because they haven't had any assurance they'll be friended back, and stuff....

and i'm not really the sort of person who gives in to the little voice that says, "reeeena, oh, reeeeena. they'll de-friiiiiend youuuuuu," and try to say whatever comes to mind even if i think it's boring and possibly stupid. ahem. but. please. please?
    just as a future reference. um. it would be nice if you let me know why you did it, whenever you do. just. less paranoia = a good thing, no? i think so, anyway.

Comments

[wellington.livejournal.com]

I understand! At last I understand! Hehe...I've just been de-friended by Audrey Thurston Hirsh, who is an admirable writer but someone I don't really know, and I feel all paranoid and self-conscious! Yay! Well, I mean not yay, but...I mean...I finally understand your post properly! *is giddy with empathy* :)

(please don't de-friend me now for making stupid pointless comments...I don't think I could take it at the moment *dramatic swoon* ;))

[yourpoison.livejournal.com]

ehehehe! that was what sent -me- into a tizzy, too~!
mostly i'm all "grr" and yargh, because i -still- hadn't read the latest chapter of `speak, desire' which was friends'-locked, so now i'm y'know... out in the cold.
sigh.
but yes. defriending si always .... harsh, unless you didn't care to start with, in which case you still don't care ><;;