~~umm...

[reenka]

ok, well... er....
i don't quite know how to say this...
but.
i'm sure in the future, one or more of you will defriend me. and that's ok. no, really. i may feel slightly hurt, but i'll be fine. there are lots of good reasons to take someone off your friends list.
    it's just, it's a paranoia-inducing thing, anyway. it makes people not friend people in the first place, because they haven't had any assurance they'll be friended back, and stuff....

and i'm not really the sort of person who gives in to the little voice that says, "reeeena, oh, reeeeena. they'll de-friiiiiend youuuuuu," and try to say whatever comes to mind even if i think it's boring and possibly stupid. ahem. but. please. please?
    just as a future reference. um. it would be nice if you let me know why you did it, whenever you do. just. less paranoia = a good thing, no? i think so, anyway.

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[yourpoison.livejournal.com]

*huggles*
funny how the three people i'd -never- imagine defriended me actually responded to me (well, that and sophie~:)
oh, i don't think anything is -wrong-, but i get twitchy when someone i like defriends me. i'm all, what? what? what did i do? do i smell bad? did i say something? did i do something? was it too much harry/draco? am i stupid? am i weird? is my spelling bad? is... *laughs*

yah.
and i'd never hurt your feelings, not on purpose.
not like i'm a saint or anything, but i never do that on purpose. that's just mean.
hee. but that entry sounded like i've lost it, didn't it ><;;

hee.
i always sound more together than i am, on here.
really, i'm just a wibbly dork most of the time. y'know, me and sally field ><;;
hee.
but i do think it's not totally unreasonable to ask that. i mean. it involves emotions in some way, so communication is a good thing ^^

*hugs*~:)

[ex-dark-soul916.livejournal.com]

no, i totally get it. if someone that i liked/knew/respected defriended me i would want to know why. i would panic, you know??