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reenkaYou knew this had to happen... -I- knew this had to happen-- and finally, it's happened: My Thoughts On Yaoi :D :D :D
Uh. Well, I was reading this post about power dynamics & sex in slash, and how unrealistic/masturbatory on the part of the author it generally is to make the characters uber-bottoms or uber-tops (in the sense that one means getting it and the other means giving it), and the usual tie to how strong women still get penetrated, etc. Well, we've heard it all before... but then it's tied to the op's Issue With Yaoi & the seme/uke thing, and okay.... Okay, there's a big difference between Character X in fanfic who would never be super!uke, or who would never really get off on a particular situation 'cause it just doesn't make sense... and an original character in an original yaoi manga.
I'm so totally on board with being squicked by fics where it's obvious the sexual roles & behaviors are purely masturbatory either for the author's sake or as performance for the fangirl audience. I was talking about this earlier in response to Sister M's post on interpretation issues in fanon & somewhat the role of fantasy in making some things plausible or not. I definitely have issues with writing where characters aren't paid attention to, and I think that's why I'm so militant about ICness insofar as what -I- mean when I say that. To me, it means 'in character' rather than 'in author'. If the characters are doing what the characters would do in your head, fine-- but sometimes it's just waaaaaay too obvious that the characters are doing what they are because they 'should' to fit the plot. And that? That is by default, not something I could ever find 'in character', even if at the surface their behavior seems to fit (until you think about their motivations).
The interaction between 'in characterness' and sexual roles and kinks is obviously tricky, though, 'cause it's not like we generally know what the characters' kinks are in canon, and besides, with slash, we're already consciously twisting canon sexuality to some degree. So pretty much you can definitely write pure top/bottom if you can sell it & don't write just for the kink-- the same as with any other questionable characterization. Defaulting to it isn't kosher because defaulting to -any- characterization cliche isn't good writing. If you're writing your character as 'the top', you might as well be writing him as 'the jock' or 'the slut' or 'the repressed bookworm'-- and on that level, saying 'real gay men' aren't like that seems entirely beside the point, no? The issue isn't with the characterization -or- the kink, but always with sloppy writing. Always.
Anyway... right. Yaoi. I feel a bit guilty 'cause obviously I'm addicted to yaoi and it's not like I believe in rigid sexual roles or 'ukes = must be penetrated = must be submissive = must cry'.
And thank god, a lot of yaoi isn't that cliched/boring, and there are a lot of mangas that buck the stereotype (though of course there are even more that sustain it). The thing is, most-- not all!-- yaoi isn't trying to be a realistic depiction of how men are or even how people are (see: shoujo in general); and just because you're into realism personally doesn't mean you get to judge all stories by that meter whether they fit or not. And I actually love emotional realism, and look for mangas that 'feel real'; it's just that if it's a good story, it'll sell you. It no longer matters if one guy is uke (always bottoms) or seme, because it -works- in that story; I believe it. That's what good writing, fanfic or original is all about, after all-- making it so you believe it. If it doesn't-- and you know you're willing and open as the reader-- then basically that story sucks, yeah, but not the genre/type of story itself.
Well, I guess I should note the original post actually used 'yaoi' to mean 'English-language fanfic for Japanese shows that slashes the male characters and puts them into Japanese-typical yaoi-type roles'. Which isn't really yaoi at all :/ I mean, it's 'yaoi fanfic', but it doesn't actually reflect the original nature of yaoi as it flourishes in its home environment; it may be influenced both by yaoi and slash, but generally there's no way of being certain what 'school' the writer's following, 'cause it's not like slash necessarily equals switching, or mature and modern lifestyles.
Regardless, yaoi dynamics have absolutely nothing to do with fics where the slashed characters are 'forced' into rigid roles, because yaoi characters aren't forced into anything-- they just are the way they are. And in any good story in general, the characters aren't 'forced' either. It's the forcing that's the problem, not the sexual dynamics.
It's a bit funny to me that people who're into switching can be as damned rigid and closed-minded about the idea that 'everyone switches! or THEY AREN'T REAL!' as they accuse the 'yaoi fangirls' of being with the seme/uke thing. Why is it so hard to imagine that some characters might be given to switch & some might not? Boring or not, some people are just... that way. Some people also eat the same type of cereal for breakfast every single day for the rest of their lives-- it's possible! Depends on the person, doesn't it? You can't even say 'everyone's different' 'cause... theoretically, you could find some people that are REALLY similar (if not the same). I guess I'm contradicting myself in that I'm saying 'you can't know!' and 'you can know enough!', haha. But it really depends on what your source is; in terms of one single measly 6-book canon, hell yeah, you can know! In terms of the whole wide world of possible original characters-- you can only sort of know, and what you don't, you can be convinced of by a good writer.
It's funny that these days I see rigidity even in people who're all insistent about open-mindedness in interpretation; it's like that cliche about 'everything in moderation: even moderation'. The people who say there's no such thing as ICness just hurt my brain; even in real life, if I knew someone well enough, I could say 'this isn't something they'd do, unless...'. People like to say about how everything's possible, but that's basically meaningless because it implies a universe where nothing's certain, and that's demonstratively false. I just want things to make sense, and when something seriously doesn't, especially in fanfic, my first thought isn't 'must be 'cause I'm just on a different wavelength'.
Like, usually even if I dislike something, I should be able to 'get' it and see where the other person got it from-- and of course I expect it from others. I once said this to someone and they said I was lucky 'cause they find they can't get other people all the time... whereas I guess I'm a bit too obsessed with understanding everything to the point where I take it for granted I can, given the right tools? Maybe.
Uh. Well, I was reading this post about power dynamics & sex in slash, and how unrealistic/masturbatory on the part of the author it generally is to make the characters uber-bottoms or uber-tops (in the sense that one means getting it and the other means giving it), and the usual tie to how strong women still get penetrated, etc. Well, we've heard it all before... but then it's tied to the op's Issue With Yaoi & the seme/uke thing, and okay.... Okay, there's a big difference between Character X in fanfic who would never be super!uke, or who would never really get off on a particular situation 'cause it just doesn't make sense... and an original character in an original yaoi manga.
I'm so totally on board with being squicked by fics where it's obvious the sexual roles & behaviors are purely masturbatory either for the author's sake or as performance for the fangirl audience. I was talking about this earlier in response to Sister M's post on interpretation issues in fanon & somewhat the role of fantasy in making some things plausible or not. I definitely have issues with writing where characters aren't paid attention to, and I think that's why I'm so militant about ICness insofar as what -I- mean when I say that. To me, it means 'in character' rather than 'in author'. If the characters are doing what the characters would do in your head, fine-- but sometimes it's just waaaaaay too obvious that the characters are doing what they are because they 'should' to fit the plot. And that? That is by default, not something I could ever find 'in character', even if at the surface their behavior seems to fit (until you think about their motivations).
The interaction between 'in characterness' and sexual roles and kinks is obviously tricky, though, 'cause it's not like we generally know what the characters' kinks are in canon, and besides, with slash, we're already consciously twisting canon sexuality to some degree. So pretty much you can definitely write pure top/bottom if you can sell it & don't write just for the kink-- the same as with any other questionable characterization. Defaulting to it isn't kosher because defaulting to -any- characterization cliche isn't good writing. If you're writing your character as 'the top', you might as well be writing him as 'the jock' or 'the slut' or 'the repressed bookworm'-- and on that level, saying 'real gay men' aren't like that seems entirely beside the point, no? The issue isn't with the characterization -or- the kink, but always with sloppy writing. Always.
Anyway... right. Yaoi. I feel a bit guilty 'cause obviously I'm addicted to yaoi and it's not like I believe in rigid sexual roles or 'ukes = must be penetrated = must be submissive = must cry'.
And thank god, a lot of yaoi isn't that cliched/boring, and there are a lot of mangas that buck the stereotype (though of course there are even more that sustain it). The thing is, most-- not all!-- yaoi isn't trying to be a realistic depiction of how men are or even how people are (see: shoujo in general); and just because you're into realism personally doesn't mean you get to judge all stories by that meter whether they fit or not. And I actually love emotional realism, and look for mangas that 'feel real'; it's just that if it's a good story, it'll sell you. It no longer matters if one guy is uke (always bottoms) or seme, because it -works- in that story; I believe it. That's what good writing, fanfic or original is all about, after all-- making it so you believe it. If it doesn't-- and you know you're willing and open as the reader-- then basically that story sucks, yeah, but not the genre/type of story itself.
Well, I guess I should note the original post actually used 'yaoi' to mean 'English-language fanfic for Japanese shows that slashes the male characters and puts them into Japanese-typical yaoi-type roles'. Which isn't really yaoi at all :/ I mean, it's 'yaoi fanfic', but it doesn't actually reflect the original nature of yaoi as it flourishes in its home environment; it may be influenced both by yaoi and slash, but generally there's no way of being certain what 'school' the writer's following, 'cause it's not like slash necessarily equals switching, or mature and modern lifestyles.
Regardless, yaoi dynamics have absolutely nothing to do with fics where the slashed characters are 'forced' into rigid roles, because yaoi characters aren't forced into anything-- they just are the way they are. And in any good story in general, the characters aren't 'forced' either. It's the forcing that's the problem, not the sexual dynamics.
It's a bit funny to me that people who're into switching can be as damned rigid and closed-minded about the idea that 'everyone switches! or THEY AREN'T REAL!' as they accuse the 'yaoi fangirls' of being with the seme/uke thing. Why is it so hard to imagine that some characters might be given to switch & some might not? Boring or not, some people are just... that way. Some people also eat the same type of cereal for breakfast every single day for the rest of their lives-- it's possible! Depends on the person, doesn't it? You can't even say 'everyone's different' 'cause... theoretically, you could find some people that are REALLY similar (if not the same). I guess I'm contradicting myself in that I'm saying 'you can't know!' and 'you can know enough!', haha. But it really depends on what your source is; in terms of one single measly 6-book canon, hell yeah, you can know! In terms of the whole wide world of possible original characters-- you can only sort of know, and what you don't, you can be convinced of by a good writer.
It's funny that these days I see rigidity even in people who're all insistent about open-mindedness in interpretation; it's like that cliche about 'everything in moderation: even moderation'. The people who say there's no such thing as ICness just hurt my brain; even in real life, if I knew someone well enough, I could say 'this isn't something they'd do, unless...'. People like to say about how everything's possible, but that's basically meaningless because it implies a universe where nothing's certain, and that's demonstratively false. I just want things to make sense, and when something seriously doesn't, especially in fanfic, my first thought isn't 'must be 'cause I'm just on a different wavelength'.
Like, usually even if I dislike something, I should be able to 'get' it and see where the other person got it from-- and of course I expect it from others. I once said this to someone and they said I was lucky 'cause they find they can't get other people all the time... whereas I guess I'm a bit too obsessed with understanding everything to the point where I take it for granted I can, given the right tools? Maybe.
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Date: 2007-02-11 07:32 pm (UTC)My favorite category is fast becoming genslash, because this sort of thing tends not to happen, this kind of bleeding over of the top/bottom mentality affecting every single fucken action taken outside the bedroom.
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Date: 2007-02-11 07:33 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-02-12 01:50 am (UTC)But really, only bad writers (not counting yaoi) make the bottom nice or girly, though the needy thing... I'm probably guilty (but I make any pov character the needy one a lot). For instance, if you're writing about Draco Malfoy... even though he works as a bottom, to make him nice & sweet & dependent is just so wrong.
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Date: 2007-02-13 12:59 am (UTC)Not only bad writers make the bottom "feminine." It seems to seep in through vulnerability, neediness, or the whole "I want to give you this" (meaning the ass) mentality, as if it was some sort of sacrifice. It does seem to change the way writers view their characters, or so it's been my experience, and with writers I consider to be good. I won't use specific names. I don't wanna piss on somebody just to make a point.
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Date: 2007-02-13 10:43 am (UTC)You're right though, about how 'feminine' (if you would consider them that) traits seep in in terms of 'giving' vs 'taking'. I mean, in yaoi, you have aggressive bottoms (and some slash does, too), but I suppose you don't need to be a bad writer overall to like all your bottoms needy/vulnerable/desperate/etc. I guess I'd say it's a bad writer if they -always- make -every- bottom fit that mold; even in yaoi they tend to shake it up more than that! When you become more stereotypically predictable than yaoi manga, there's definitely a writing problem :> I can even see how some boys can be brainwashed by some aspects of pop culture to see the bottoming as being 'giving it up', so it'd be a big sacrifice for them, though I like it when that whole shtick is humorous or made light of in the story. It works well in adolescent humor situations, I think. But that's something of a tangent. ^^;