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So I've been trying to figure out how I feel about the potential conflict between a 'live & let live' philosophy and the inherent pitfalls of free speech, like saying things that people take as being censorship attempts. It seems like there's a thin line sometimes between saying & doing-- and that words can be taken as calls to action simply because they -can- be, as in the typical example of yelling 'fire' in a movie theater. And how to distinguish these things?

Often enough, that's where arguments & kerfuffles start, isn't it? Someone expresses their opinion, usually involving not liking some people's behavior, and the people who're in the 'line of fire' become offended, tempers flare, and so on. And of course most people would say everyone has the right to their opinions, but isn't it in the nature of particularly strong opinion that it's 'as good as' knowledge, for most people? The only difference, which is difficult to discern straight off, would be that with an -opinion-, it could be changed by whatever form of argument works for the person holding it (emotional, rational, etc), whereas with a belief of fact, you'd need either a revelation of a higher order or hard evidence, again depending on the type of person involved.

And of course, fact is, even in 'free' societies, people get persecuted for their opinions, depending on whether they're seen as 'threatening' by the majority (and actually, a minority could persecute chosen other groups also). I really wonder if free speech can exist without being constantly challenged and oppressed even by people who believe in it-- just because of people's possible emotional investment in the subject at hand. I mean, with most people, it's 'live and let live' until someone treads on your toes, at which point you get pissed off and quite possibly retaliatory, and such is human nature.

As an example: "I don't like your mother, and I think she--" is taken as slander. Speech which is seen to offend or degrade another person. But that is a really straightforward case-- and who's to say where 'slander' really stops? What if one says, "Believing in god is stupid, because god doesn't exist"-- is that slander? What about, "Broccoli sucks. It's green, tasteless, and really disgusting"-- how would the lovers of broccoli feel? What if they really feel deeply about broccoli? Basically, once you go PC, can you ever go back??
    However, I think that in all these, it would be 'okay' to say this between friends-- at least, my friends have certainly never beaten around the bush in terms of panning everything from my mom to my taste in boys to whatever I'm wearing. It gets to the point where I wouldn't even notice the extent of this sort of 'abuse' except in retrospect. But then, we know each other rather well so the 'free speech' is like a favor, which implies that the spheres of 'public' and private discourse are really quite separate in people's minds (and this explains why I get on some people's nerves, I guess, since I view this journal as private discourse in a public forum).


Anyway, it seems like opinions are never just opinions, so any view of free speech as a given in any social group seems naive. Depends on how much you want to keep that social group cohesive and free of conflict, of course-- but on reflection, it definitely appears that people's personal opinions and beliefs are actually the most powerful instruments of change in society. If you've got enough people holding an opinion, they -can- change things either for the worse or for the better-- majority rules, all that. And you can't really predict which opinion's meaningless and has no impact beyond a single person. Basically, words = power.

However, it is in spite and because of this that free speech and tolerance of people you disagree with on however deep a level becomes necessary. I believe that even if that includes someone saying bad things about my mother. Because if it's not 'all or nothing', then how to objectively determine any opinion's relative importance...?

Date: 2004-12-01 02:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
Right, then we're talking about two different conversations. I'm talking about the one where people criticising JKR's work where jealous, stupid, had ego issues and all that jazz.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
*where should were. typos are a way of life to me, and whoever criticises them HAS DEEP PERSONAL INSECURITIES AND A LACK OF SOCIAL SKILLS, TOO.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yourpoison.livejournal.com
When I said I was coming from a specific inspiration, I didn't mean it was me reading a fandom post-- since I don't even know what you're talking about with the JKR thing, and probably don't want to know since those things piss me off and avoidance is a happy thing. I was more inspired by... something or other but mostly it's a combination of things.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
Oh, it was my email where I raged against the status quo and that person defending it? Um, because that was a ehole different issue where I am not bothered at all by the manner in which they express their opinions, just quite violently disagree with the opinion itself. But um, that doesn't mean I think their debate tactics, per se, are illogical or arseholish.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yourpoison.livejournal.com
But simply disagreeing with a normally-stated opinion made you feel unhappy & oppressed, correct? I believe this isn't that unusual-- this reaction to content no matter what the style-- and therefore I was extrapolating to the point where it wasn't really about you at all but a combination of things, as I've said.

It seems like incidents that are straightforward ('you're a psychotic ho' for instance) are too obvious & not interesting for me to think about. But incidences where people might project onto normally stated words and interpret things that may or may not be there are more interesting 'cause I think this happens a lot in 'normal' discourse-- whereas calling anyone a psycho is not 'normal discourse'. But I as I said-- again-- this wasn't directed at you :D Just to be 100% clear :>

Date: 2004-12-01 02:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
Yes, but the point of that essay was that I felt I could disagree strongly if I was not such a lazyarse and we could discuss about it without her trying to convert me.

Oh, but I think that there were a lot of fascinating rhetorics to think about in that discussion, as well, like accusing people to over-intellectualising their reading of a text as opposed to accepting their refreshing realism. Lots of projection thingies going on there, too, like assuming I claim absolute truth in my criticism of JKR because the speaker doesn't seem to know half measures; this happened with conflating "JKR's work is flawed" with "JKR's work is wretched" which allowed people's to use the "nothing is perfect" argument to declare "JKR's work is the best"... and can you tell it's a hot button?

Date: 2004-12-01 02:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yourpoison.livejournal.com
See, you're doing that thing where you think I imply coersion through the stating of an opinion-- and that's what I was talking about. Just because I said I don't think the JKR discussion applies to what I was wanting to think about and also sounds like it'd piss me off, doesn't mean I believed someone else couldn't find anything of interest in it.

I said, 'I don't want to think about it because I think it's not interesting'. You said, 'but there are interesting things....' But I wasn't denying there might be interesting things-- I was just saying I didn't want to think about them (for personal reasons), see? :>

I was talking about emotional responses, not intellectual or reasonable responses, basically.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
Yes, and you just did the same to me what with the whole thinking I presumed you were saying nobody would be interested in this universally, when I was just saying that it would be interesting also in relation to your own post.

I think people should control their emotional responses better and at least admit to them when they get called on their shit.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yourpoison.livejournal.com
...And I was saying that while it might be interesting, I didn't mean to go there because it's too obvious.

I think people should control their emotional responses better

...that's an intent of coersion :>

Date: 2004-12-01 02:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
Yes, I can also back it up as a norm, ie the behaviour it's condemning as wrong is in fact harmful to other people and btw, an attempt to coerce in a case where a different behaviour wouldn't be harmful. I think that's the difference between a liberal ethos and an evangelical one.

Date: 2004-12-01 02:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yourpoison.livejournal.com
People arguing one way or the other about JKR or whatever stupid fandom thing is 'harmful'.....????

Date: 2004-12-01 03:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
telling to people what they should do because you can't deal with them being different from you is harmful, no matter how much on micro the scale it happens on is.

Date: 2004-12-01 03:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yourpoison.livejournal.com
It is only harmful if the person has some power over you, or group of people as the case may be. In the case of internet communities and peer-based discussion groups, the power is only what you give them.

Date: 2004-12-01 03:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] malafede.livejournal.com
see, this is what every discussion between us come to. >:D

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